Neighbors, breakups, and the endlessly cycling scene

The Good Neighbors are leaving the neighborhood. One of Missoula’s most popular local bands since it first appeared on the local scene a year and a half ago, the Good Neighbor Policy has decided to pull up roots and head off to Bellingham, Wash.

Chisel another casualty in the history of Missoula rock.

It’s a familiar story: A group of talented young musicians gets together, gets good, gets a following, gets frustrated by the financial realities of life in our isolated city, and eventually gets gone. Missoula has lost several of its finer acts to this fate over the years, from the raucous rockers Fireballs of Freedom, to punk-pop act Your Divine Tragedy, to – most famously – Colin Meloy, who left his Missoula band, Tarkio, for Portland, where he formed the Decemberists.

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“Graceful” poetry at the Crystal

Over at the Crystal Theatre, one of the finer bait-and-switch schemes in recent memory is currently unfolding. Look at the triple bill of plays currently in production there, and you’re sure to see a name you recognize. There’s Tennessee Williams, one of the greatest playwrights of the past century; and there’s John Patrick Shanley, the hottest name in American theatre today and winner of the Pulitzer Prize. Oh, and there’s also a local playwright by the name of Kaet Morris, whose play, “Graceful Exits,” is listed in small print on the production flyers.

Go for the familiar – for Williams and Shanley — if that’s what it takes to get you into the darkened Crystal one sunny evening this week. Then be ready to be dazzled – not by Williams’ stilted sci-fi mini-play or even Shanley’s hilariously campy paean to a pencil, but by Morris’ deeply moving, vividly cast new play.

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National Folk Festival

My wife DaLynn is all psyched about the National Folk Festival, which takes place July 11-13 in Butte. It’s only the second time in the history of this annual festival that it’s been held west of the Mississippi; there are acts from around the world performing.

“There’s an a-capella quartet-style gospel group from [...]

Breaking down my metal biases

For the past few years I’ve worked in the same building with a guy named Matthew. I would say we work for the same company – which we do – but that might give the impression that we have a lot of close contact. In truth, I have little occasion to enter his department of the Missoulian: He works in classified advertising, on a different floor of the building. Nevertheless, I’ve met Matthew in passing in the break room. I also knew that he was a friend of a good friend of mine, a woman who seems to keep company with a good number of gay men.

Matthew is thin, exceptionally well-groomed and almost unnaturally pleasant in demeanor; so it didn’t take much of a leap for me to assume that he fit in with my friend’s friends.

Turns out, I was completely wrong about his sexuality. But Matthew does have a secret home-life, one that was – to me – rather a shock: He plays guitar in an industrial-metal band.

Paint me all scribbly-headed.

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Back home: It’s a trip

I woke Monday morning to the tender, pulsating sensation of Julian, my one-year old, kicking me in the head — my wake-up alarm for the past couple of months. I opened my eyes and was startled to see my bedside table. MY bedside table — not my mom’s, not Holiday Inn’s, not the Guilin Bravo Hotel’s. It was the first time I have woken up in my own bed in almost a month.

As I tumbled out of bed and into my familiar world of piled laundry and full-sized shampoo bottles, I found myself noticing things that had gone unnoticed perhaps too long: The pile of magazines I’ve already read, the toothbrush in need of replacement, the caulking I never touched up around the banister, a missing outlet cover, a painting hanging crooked on the wall.

For the first time in a long time, I saw my house as an outsider might see it.

Yikes.

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Life in the newsroom

Sometimes life in the newsroom is kinda surreal. Like when you hear a nearby reporter ask on the phone:

“So…do you consider yourself, like, a person who would regularly throw parties for dogs?”

I really have no idea what this conversation is about. Guess I’ll just hafta read the paper tomorrow.

The wee walker

I was sitting in the den of my mother’s house, listening with her to a recording of my father talking, when I heard a commotion out in the living room.

“Joe, come check this out!” my wife, DaLynn, cried out.

I scurried out into the living room, where my sister-in-law, Glenda, was holding my one-year old son, Julian. She placed him on his feet in front of her. “Come on, baby!” she urged. “Come to me!”

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Ah, crap

Here’s something you don’t want to hear your wife say while visiting your mom (and your mom’s dog, Scout):

“Oh, crap! Joe, um, help! Scout pooped, and Julian ate it!“

Julian, our one-year old, found the ensuing hubbub quite amusing — even if, judging from the spitting and screwy faces he made, he [...]

Final stories in the paper

Today, the last two stories chronicling this China adventure were published in the paper; both can be read here. In a couple of weeks I think we’re planning a photo essay for the Sunday Territory section; but today’s stories are the last play-by-play installments. Hope you’ve enjoyed them.